Men or Women: Who is more Commitment Phobic?

Many people have the misconception that it is mostly the man who is a commitment phobic, but there are women who fit a profile as well. There can be histories of: short relationships, infidelity, hidden agendas, history of frequent career changes, they like to feel in control , often try to compartmentalize their life and keep their work environment, friends or family off limits, feel trapped by making choices and great at playing the play the seduction/rejection game.

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Party for Life

They are always whining and complaining, setting themselves up in relationships that couldn’t work so they can keep proving to themselves that relationships can never work out for them. They have a self-fulfilling prophecy, and they just keep selecting people that are going to keep reinforcing it. They choose unsuitable relationships because they have convinced themselves that they are happier alone, and having a good time playing the field is the way they cope and stay uncommitted.

Ricochet

They keep leaving and returning and leaving and returning to the same failing relationship, and keep doing it for a period of years, but ultimately it’s a way of avoiding commitment.  All that rebounding takes its toll on a person’s body, mind and soul. Pulling away from someone creates a grieving process, and it may seem like the answer, but years of endless anguish it just creates a bigger hole for the commitment phobic to crawl into.

Private Detective

Constantly on the lookout for the right relationship, and have friends and family searching too. Their beef is trust. The detective does not trust the other partner ever. They believe that another person in some way is going to slice into their heart, and they need to be constantly on the defensive. You cannot commit to anyone in this state of mind.

Nitpicker

They find a suitable man or woman and then pick they become the nitpicker, and pick them apart piece-by-piece. They don’t drive the right car; don’t make enough money, not enough hair, too short, or perhaps too fat. They believe that if they just hold out the right person they are going to just appear, and be exactly what they have dreamed, and the relationship will be perfect.

In the end, no one meets their stringent requirements, and they stay a commitment phobic as they want all or nothing, or an unrealistic dream of perfection.

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Overcoming Commitment Phobia

Treating a commitment  phobia involves two people, but the majority of the work needs to be done by the person who has the fear….but the solution can by surprisingly clear-cut. The commitment phobic needs to rid themselves of the unresolved emotion, or subconscious conflict that is preventing them from moving forward in the relationship. This fear is so powerful that it can be paralyzing.

It may sound weird, but there is a really simple technique that involves a little commitment to help someone overcome their commitment phobia, and it is hypnosis. It is a very powerful tool that can help the commitment phobic resolve and work internally to unleash with unleashing the unconscious of the unresolved fears that are preventing them from developing health relationships. It can be as simple as listening to a self-hypnosis download.

Hypnosis is a drug free and side effect free choice when it comes to treating phobias of all types. If a self hypnosis download, or self hypnosis CD does not do the trick, an individual can opt for seeing a trained psychologist who can help delve deeper into the recesses of the mind to help the commitment phobic’s get past their “commitment sticking points.”

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