Men or Women: Who is more Commitment Phobic?

Many people have the misconception that it is mostly the man who is a commitment phobic, but there are women who fit a profile as well. There can be histories of: short relationships, infidelity, hidden agendas, history of frequent career changes, they like to feel in control , often try to compartmentalize their life and keep their work environment, friends or family off limits, feel trapped by making choices and great at playing the play the seduction/rejection game.

 

 

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The Commitment Phobic Man & The Commitment Phobic Woman

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They are always whining and complaining, setting themselves up in relationships that couldn’t work so they can keep proving to themselves that relationships can never work out for them. They have a self-fulfilling prophecy, and they just keep selecting people that are going to keep reinforcing it. They choose unsuitable relationships because they have convinced themselves that they are happier alone, and having a good time playing the field is the way they cope and stay uncommitted.

Ricochet

They keep leaving and returning and leaving and returning to the same failing relationship, and keep doing it for a period of years, but ultimately it’s a way of avoiding commitment.  All that rebounding takes its toll on a person’s body, mind and soul. Pulling away from someone creates a grieving process, and it may seem like the answer, but years of endless anguish it just creates a bigger hole for the commitment phobic to crawl into.

Private Detective

Constantly on the lookout for the right relationship, and have friends and family searching too. Their beef is trust. The detective does not trust the other partner ever. They believe that another person in some way is going to slice into their heart, and they need to be constantly on the defensive. You cannot commit to anyone in this state of mind.

Nitpicker

They find a suitable man or woman and then pick they become the nitpicker, and pick them apart piece-by-piece. They don’t drive the right car; don’t make enough money, not enough hair, too short, or perhaps too fat. They believe that if they just hold out the right person they are going to just appear, and be exactly what they have dreamed, and the relationship will be perfect.

In the end, no one meets their stringent requirements, and they stay a commitment phobic as they want all or nothing, or an unrealistic dream of perfection.

Overcoming Commitment Phobia

I know for a fact that most people think that this type of emotional tug of war is no big deal, but I know that this type of  fear is so powerful that it can be paralyzing, and can sabotage or derail any possible commitment from a man or a woman.

“It’s not a switch that someone can turn on or off, even if they met the man or woman of their dreams!”

Treating a commitment phobia involves two people, but the majority of the work needs to be done by the person who has the fear.  The solution is to help the commitment phobic man or woman to rid themselves of their unresolved emotions, or subconscious conflicts that are preventing them from moving forward in the their current or past relationships.

What I am going to ask you next may sound a little strange, but I am asking you to commit to something when you have a fear of commitments.

Ironic as it its, there is a really simple technique to help you or someone you know to overcome their commitment phobia, and it is hypnosis. It is a very powerful tool that can help the commitment phobic man or woman resolve and work internally to unleash the emotional bonds that are holding them back in relationships. Self hypnosis helps you unleashing the unconscious of the unresolved fears that are preventing them from developing health relationships. It can be as simple as listening to a self-hypnosis download.

Hypnosis is a drug free and side effect free choice when it comes to treating phobias of all types.

If a Fear of Commitment Self -hypnosis download, or self hypnosis CD does not do the trick, an individual can opt for seeing a trained psychologist who can help delve deeper into the recesses of the mind to help the commitment phobic’s get past their “commitment sticking points.”

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